Decorating for Real Life and Real People

I spent a recent weekend curled up with a stackvase over. I suppose the person who would work
of decorating magazines. I read them cover toat such a desk would have no need of a mouse
cover - usually back to front, but that's the way Ipad, paper clips, or a pile of sticky notes. I wish I
read most magazines and newspapers. I studiedcould work like that.
each photograph and tried to determine theI want to know what the rooms in the
particular design concept that was beingphotographs look like a week later. Are the same
presented. I looked at the number and placementthree Granny Smith apples still in perfect position
of accessories, how and where arrangements ofon the glass-topped table? Is the fringe on the
items were hung on the walls, choices of colorcashmere afghan still draped just so over the arm
and texture, and flooring selections. Each photoof the rocking chair in the baby's room? Does the
was scrutinized in the minutest detail. At somekitchen counter look bare without the tureen of
point I started to wonder for whom thesesoup and the matching soup bowls? I mean, the
absolutely gorgeous rooms were designed.soup was eaten, wasn't it? Am I losing my
Bedside tables held no alarm clocks or clockperspective here?
radios. While there was usually an abundance ofShow me a playroom after the children have
decorative items, there were no tissue boxes orbeen forced to put away the toys. I'll bet there
eyeglass cases. Dressers displayed beautifullyare no cunning arrangements of stuffed animals
arranged floral creations and perhaps a cut glasshaving tea, and the blocks aren't stacked into
perfume bottle or two, with ornamental stoppers.just-right pyramids with one block placed in front
No jewelry boxes, no lotion bottles, none of theand a little to the side. The pillows are all over the
everyday stuff of life. I don't know about you butroom and the bedspread is trailing onto the floor.
I want a telephone at the side of my bed. AndThat's real.
someplace handy for the TV remote.I realize that the decorating magazines present
And the bathrooms! Don't even get me startedrooms and arrangements that are idealized and
on the bathrooms! Do the users of thesestylized. They are intended to give our
bathrooms ever need to replace the toilet paperimaginations a jumping-off point; we are meant to
or the hand soap? Do they have their hair doneadapt their ideas to our own needs. They do a
weekly (maybe daily?) at beauty- or barber-shopswonderful job and I will continue to peruse the
and thus have no need of shampoo andglossy pages of each publication. Occasionally,
conditioner bottles? Toothbrushes, toothpaste andhowever, I'd appreciate a view of a real room,
floss? The men don't have to shave and thespiffed up for company, perhaps, but real. I want
women have no need of makeup? Streamliningto be able to imagine waking up to the clock
and organization can only take you so far. Soonerradio, to see myself sitting at the computer and
or later you need a place for feminine supplies,actually getting some work done, to know where
room deodorizers, and the extra cotton balls andI would store the supply of makeup without
swabs that don't fit into the pretty little designerwhich I cannot face the world. I want to think
containers. And I can't be the only person whothat I could actually live in the room. Isn't that the
thinks that a plunger should be stored someplacepoint of the whole exercise? Don't we all want
handy to the location of possible need.comfortable homes that suit our life styles,
No cords for the lamps, no tangle of wires fororganized and better looking, maybe, but still us?
the home office computer system. OneGo take a look at the pictures in a decorating
photograph featured an elegant "work space" withmagazine. See if you agree with me. I think I'm
a large bouquet of flowers drooping fetchinglygoing to go clean out a couple of drawers and
over the printer. I could imagine spent blossomsstraighten a bookcase shelf or two. It won't end
dropping into the works, and I couldn't imagineup picture perfect, but it will be real.
how to open the paper tray without knocking the